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My Memories of Barb...
When I redid My Aunt's tribute page, I was glad for the update
but part of me couldn't let go of all that I had done with the
initial page, so to preserve my original story I am posting here...
This is more for me, for my Memories, and for my heart.
I still Miss you so much Barb, we all do, though it took sometime
things are getting a little easier...I believe with everything that
you're Our Special Angel sent to watch over us all, we love you
and one day we will see you again when our time comes.
Until that day comes I hold close all the memories, and have some
peace when I look to the sky and think you're smiling down...
Love ya Always ~ Adieu but never goodbye
~ your Niece "Christy" ~
The Way I Remember...
I hope I find the words to express what an impact Barb made to
her family and friends. She was such a compassionate person
and she went out of her way often to help wherever needed.
I think everyone that knew her has an impression left forever
in there hearts and minds. Barb was my Aunt, and looking back
over the years, memories fade, I struggle to remember all I can.
My Aunt Joan and her have always meant alot to me growing up.
At times it seemed as they were more my sisters as I had spent
alot of time with them when I was younger. I love all my family
very much, and unfortunately sometimes it takes a tragedy to
make us realize how important Family and friends are to us all.
None of us would be here without them and until I became a Mother
myself, couldn't appreciate all of what family really meant to me.
Some of my last and most precious memories of Barb were of my
Wedding, March 18, 2000. Barb offered to make all the mints,
she sent me a sample about a month before of beautiful mints,
the colors of my wedding. The ones I still have in my freezer.
There were Brides and Grooms, and different Wedding Bells.
I'd also asked Joan to make my cake which was a beautiful
fruitcake I'd seen in a magazine and it turned out exactly
as I had hoped, and it was perfect. Both made my day.
I'd got so many compliments that day on my cake and mints.
They both helped to make my day very special to me.
I was approximately 3 months pregnant with our 2nd child at
our wedding and Barb often called during the last few months
to see what things I might be needing for my new baby boy.
Both my aunts have twin boys less than a year apart and so
I had TONS of clothes for the little boy I was expecting.
Barb also gave me a crib that Brett and Michael had used.
At 29 weeks my water broke quite early and I was admitted
to St. Mary's hospital for almost 7 wks. on strict bedrest.
Barb called me there a few times to see how I was doing,
She was encouraging me that it would be over soon enough.
Todd, Barb, and the boys came back over the 4th of July
weekend to spend with the G-parents on both the Urban and
Ronde sides and had been watching the Parade from her
parents house, as I remember doing many times as a child.
I'd talked to her about hopefully making it back in 2001
to spend time celebrating the 4th with them and my family.
I want my kids to have this memory of their grandparents also.
(and this year 2001, I did end up taking my family for the 4th)
Barb called wanting to come visit me in the hospital, and she'd
made plans to come with Grandma (her mom) to visit on 7-2-01.
I'm very grateful for that last visit and the short time we had
together that day. Gma brought cookies, candies, and a book.
My In-laws, husband Todd, and our daughter Kelsi were also
there that day. We all went outside for a short visit. (By this
time I was allowed to be wheelchaired outside once a day).
I just wish somehow I could've known that would be the last
time I would ever see her. I miss her dearly and know we all
still ache for her family as well. The boys have made some
really great progress though a long road is still ahead.
I pray that Todd and the boys can heal in time and carry on.
We all wish we could do more for them, and If I lived closer
I'd help with the boys somehow but I will have to be content
with just visiting when I can, they've already come along way.
Shortly after the accident, I wrote a poem for the boys it's called
"My Mommy, My Angel", I used to write alot of poetry when
I was young, this is posted on my site if anyone wants to view.
I believe that Barb is Our Guardian Angel and I feel better knowing
she's watching over us all, and someday we'll be able to see her again....
Until Then I will miss you Barb and never forget the memories we had.
My main regret is that such a Loving, caring person would have to leave
this world by such a careless decision. Please DON'T Drink and Drive...
Barbara Ann Urban(Ronde)
April 4, 1962 ~ August 10, 2000
 
Very Special Thanks to Kas, a good friend from
Angels Touching Hearts for custom making
this WebSet for use here... I appreciate it very much!!
Lots of Love
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